THREATS to KILL ME, by John Caverly, my land partner in
Kalapana, Hawaii, who has my wife and children, and i believe he would do anything to get rid
of me. He has stated in front of a witness that he "would be
willing serve time
in prison, just to get rid of (me)". SEE NOTARIZED
AFFIDAVIT at end of this document...
I've had four serious threats on my life from John Caverly.
I am publishing this in a (secret) file on my website, just in case i am ever
killed or disappear. Just download
my website, and click on page called "John"
In a previous notarized affidavit, also signed by my daughter Seraphina, who was
an eye-witness to the event, I described how my land partner John Caverly
assaulted me, and when I told him I was going to call the police to press
charges for assault, he replied: “If
you call the cops, I’ll kill you.” He continued to threaten me, in
front of my 20-yr-old daughter. Caverly
said: “In this County, if you kill somebody, and if you get caught and
also convicted, the most time you’ll serve is 2 years… and I would do that,
just to get rid of you.”
I
never swung back, but when I began to walk away, Caverly kicked me in my balls
from behind, like a sucker punch. In
my notarized affidavit, I state that I am concerned for my life, because John
Caverly is very wealthy (I believe a lot of hidden, illegal money), and he is
the kind of person who is shrewd and cunning, and would pay someone else
thousands of dollars to murder me, while he creates a perfect alibi for himself,
like during a time when he’s not even on the island.
Also, please note, John Caverly is the biggest liar I have ever met,
and he has at least one illegal weapon on the property that we share in Kalapana.
I’m concerned now about this illegal weapon.
In early December, one morning, I was working in my home/office, when I
heard several gunshots up in the direction of John’s house, higher up on the
property. I called his house,
and my wife (who is now his exclusive girlfriend, since April 2001) answered the
phone, and I asked who was shooting a gun.
She replied that it was John, and that he had just got the gun from his
brother Steve in Kona. I
didn’t think much about it for 2 weeks, but then I started thinking:
Why does John need a gun from his brother in Kona?
He already has several rifles and shotguns, which I believe are all
registered and legal. A couple of
days before I heard these gunshots, John had threatened to kill me again,
because during the summer, when I was on the mainland, he came down to my
buildings on the property and stole 12 solar panels.
When I was on the mainland, I called home almost every evening, and my
wife Jackie asked me if he and John could tear down 2 of our buildings that had
solar panels on them, but I strictly told them not to.
When I returned after 3 weeks on the mainland, John had taken 12 solar
panels, 6 batteries, and other electronic equipment,
and moved them up to his main building, absolutely without my approval, and
actually against my wishes… But
he did it when I was away. So
finally in December, with the shortened days, my solar system was not
functioning as good as it ought to, and my batteries were crashing every day,
and I had to run my generator 5 or 6 or 7 times every day, and the crashing
solar system led to computer crashes almost every time, and a computer expert
told me that was why my computer’s hard drive crashed 3 times in just 2
months!!!
I was so frustrated by these events, that in early December, I asked him:
“How would you feel if I went up to your house, and took back my
solar panels when you’re not
home?” Of course,
what he did was worse: He took MY
panels, after I specifically told him not to.
I was only suggesting taking MY OWN panels back, not taking HIS panels
that he had paid for, like he did to me.
He took my panels, which belonged to me, and all I was asking was how he
would feel if I were to take my own panels back.
His reply to me was this: “If you dare even try to take those
solar panels back, I’ll kill you!”
It was 2 days later
when I heard the gunshots…
Again, when I called his house after hearing the gunshots, Jackie answered and
told me that it was John who was shooting the gun, and that he got the gun from
his brother Steve Caverly, who lives in Kona.
She also told me some other details about how the gun got around the
island, either Steve drove it here, or John drove to Kona, but I can’t recall
those details. It was only
about 2 weeks later that I got suspicious, thinking why does John need to get a
gun from his brother in Kona, when he has several legal weapons already?
Then I remembered how he had threatened to kill me…
So I started thinking that he was planning to kill me with an illegal,
unregistered gun. He would
have an illegal weapon only for 3 purposes:
1) either he’s planning to rob a bank or convenience store (unlikely,
as he is relatively affluent); 2)
he’s growing marijuana, and needs to protect his crops;
or 3) he’s planning to kill someone (me).
So 2 weeks later, I called again, and Jackie answered again, and I asked again
about why he had a gun. She
said she didn’t know why, but again she repeated the story that he got it from
his brother (Steve Caverly, who lives in Honaunau, South Kona).
I asked her if it was a rifle or a pistol… She said to me:
“What difference does it make?” When
I pressed her for the correct answer, she wavered saying she didn’t know.
But she had repeated the story again about how her boyfriend John (my
land partner, who hates me, and threatened to kill me twice) got the gun from
his brother in Kona.
Later that same day, John drove up and stopped at my place.
So I said to him: “Remember about 2 weeks ago, when you were shooting a
gun up above? Why do you have
a gun?” He acted
surprised, and could hardly offer a quick answer.
After a long pause, he finally told me this lie:
“I don’t know what you’re talking about.” So I repeated myself, again, saying: “Remember
about 2 weeks ago, I heard you shooting a gun, in the morning.”
Again he denied it, and asked me why I thought he was shooting a
gun. I told him:
“Because Jackie told me you were.”
At that point, you could see the embarrassment on his face.
Then he created this other lie to cover up the first lie:
He said to me, “Those gunshots were coming from the lava flow
(next to our property)… Didn’t you hear the gunshots?
Somebody’s been shooting a gun out there every day for the past 2
weeks.” Now, this
again is another big lie, which proved to me that he had something to
hide. I say it is a big lie because I live and work at home
every day, like a recluse, and I was here every day for the past 2 weeks, and
the ONLY gunshots I heard were from up above, coming from around John’s
buildings. Reader:
please wait, this is just the beginning of a series of lies about this
gun that is so deep, it makes you wonder why the need to be so secretive about
it.
So I told John right to his face: “I
don’t believe a word you’re saying about the gun.” With
that, he turned around and walked away, and drove up to his home on the top of
the property. About an hour later,
Jackie and John both walked down to my home, and Jackie began to speak first:
“About the gun: I
made a mistake. John wasn’t shooting any gun, and I don’t know why I said
he got it from his brother in Kona.”
Now, please note that I lived with Jackie for more than 21 years, and I
could see in her face that she was lying (to protect John, and his brother in
Kona). I could see in her face that
she had just been severely reprimanded (by John). My guess is that after I told John that I learned about
the gun and where he got it from, he confronted Jackie in anger and yelled at
her: “Why the hell are you
telling him the truth?” Many
times in the past, he has asked her to lie for him.
John Caverly is the biggest liar I’ve ever known, and he has other
people, including Jackie, lying for him.
So I looked at the 2 of them, and I said: “I know you’re lying about the gun.
Why would Jackie tell me it was John who was shooting it off, if it
wasn’t? and where did she
get the story about the gun coming from John’s brother in Kona?
You think I’m going to believe that she accidentally concocted this
story?” They got
stern, and all they could say was: “There
is no gun, that’s it. Jackie
made up the whole story.” So
I said, “OK, I’ll just call your brother in Kona, and see what he
says.” Then John replied
to me angrily: “If you dare
call my brother in Kona, you’ve had it !!!”
(Quote, unquote)… So
I told them again that I didn’t believe a word they were saying about the gun,
and they walked away.
The next morning, the 2 of them walked down to my home again, and I was sitting
at my desk working on my computer. They
came inside, and said (another lie to cover up the other lies):
“You know about those gunshots… Actually, we did have a
gun, but we don’t have it anymore… I didn’t like it and I gave it
back.” Then I said
I’d call his brother to confirm that he gave it back, and now he tells me that
it didn’t come from his brother, but from another friend.
I asked who that friend was, and John said: “It’s none of your business.”
Then he went on to say that they got the gun to shoot at mongeese.
But I kept thinking: Why
do they need a gun from a friend to shoot at mongeese?
(because John already has several legally registered firearms). This story, and the previous lies, and the cover-up, and that
if I called his brother, he threatened me that “You’ve had it,” all
started to seem too fishy, too suspicious.
There was something dangerous and illegal going on, and I wanted
to get to the root of it. He had
threatened to kill me several times in the past 8 months, and he had an
illegal weapon on the property, and Jackie was living with him, with my 3
youngest children.
I was trying to get to the bottom of this, and discussed the events with
numerous acquaintances, and that’s when I learned that Jackie and John were
also growing marijuana on the property or next to the property.
This is bad enough, but about a year ago, I finally learned the hard way
that John and his friends were growing marijuana, when suddenly one morning
about 6 am, we heard about 2 dozen gunshots close by the property.
John’s marijuana crop had been ripped off at gunpoint!!!
That day and the next, he moved what he could salvage out of there, and I
was relieved that there was no more illegal marijuana-growing on the property or
nearby. But a year later, I heard
from 2 reliable sources that John and Jackie were at it again, again growing
marijuana on my property or next to my property, and this may be the reason
they got the illegal weapon.
Jackie is still married to me, and those are my children.
Not only is marijuana-growing illegal, but they already had been
ripped-off at gunpoint a year ago. So
if they were at it again, growing marijuana again,
they’d be crazy, and risk bringing calamity to the property, to me, and
to my children who live there with them. I
think this is a case of child-endangerment, and I may use this to gain child
custody.
In April 2001, John begged Jackie repeatedly to leave me, and to stop having sex
with me (her husband of 21+ years, and father of all her 5 children).
We had been together for 21+
years, almost a fairy-tale-like marriage.
We met on Christmas Eve 1979, and Jackie had 5 daughters with me, almost
every 4 years apart. I
thought nothing could ever separate us.
After I bought the property in Kalapana, I sold John a 50% undivided
interest, with tenancy in common. I
had known John ever since 1973, and he was one of my oldest friends in Hawaii…
But his ulterior motive was not so much to own 50% of 27-acres in Kalapana, but
to have a reason to come down here every day.
He later told me he had had an infatuation with Jackie since before I had
ever met her. But he had no
respect for the fact that we were married, and that we had a beautiful FAMILY
together.
After repeatedly begging her to stop having sex with me, and I mean literally
BEGGING, even using the word beg, in a long conversation I accidentally
eavesdropped into, he said over and over:
“I BEG you to stop having sex with Robert… I BEG you to leave him…
I love you more than him… Don’t you want to spend the rest of your life with
the man who loves you the most?”
In this same conversation, which I listened to for almost a half hour (I
was standing right outside the door to the room they were in), Jackie kept
saying to him: “That’s not right…That’s not fair…That won’t
work.”
But eventually his persistence paid off, and by the end of April 2001, I could
see the handwriting on the wall… (John’s own wife at the time was Heidi
Dillingham, who had previously been married to Aelbert Ahegma, and they had 6
children between them, when John did the exact same thing to their marriage –
he put a wedge between husband and wife, and stole the wife away from the
husband, breaking up their family… Then he did the same to me… Why does this
man go after married women with children??
Aren’t there enough single, unmarried women, with no children??
What does he have no respect for the institution of marriage, a holy
matrimony? It’s a bond and a
relationship. By BEGGING my
wife to leave me (we were married together for 21 years, and are STILL married,
as she refuses to divorce me!!!!!), he ruined my marriage, he divided my
family, and he destroyed a nice relationship, and love…
I see it as pure evil, selfishness, etc., etc… But also it shows his
stupidity to do it against his land partner.
I agree that there is nothing illegal about adultery, or even about
immorality, nor is it illegal to be unethical, or even to lie (except in court
under oath). I am just
pointing out his evil, immoral, and unethical character to set a foundation for
this expose.
So she finally left me, and I was very hurt and very disturbed by it… He moved
her up to his part of the property, and for months, I was never once invited
to dinner, which is usually the main time of day I would get to interact
with my children. Now, I almost
never interact with my children anymore… and meanwhile, I hear that he tells
other people that my children are his children. So that’s why this incident about the marijuana
growing really blew my mind, because she’s not only endangering my children,
but also me and herself, besides risking jail time, and also putting the
property in jeopardy if their crop got busted by the police.
But John told me several times that he didn’t care if he lost the property
because he owns 3 other properties he could go to, one near the top of Kamaili
Road, and the other in Ookala, and a third off of Pohoiki Road, all 4 parcels
combined about 250-acres. But
for me, this was all I had. We
he purchased the last 100-acres off of Pohoiki Road, I asked Jackie how much he
paid for it, and how he could afford it, all she could answer was that she
wouldn’t tell because I could use the information to get him in trouble…
I put all my money into this one property in Kalapana, and I have nowhere else
to go. But at least everything I do
is legal, even if I don’t make as much money as he does. I
don’t own 4 properties, with over 200-acres on this island… As my land
partner, he should have told me the truth from the start about the marijuana,
last year, as well as this year, but he is just a liar and prevaricator.
He should have told me why he had the illegal weapon, not lied about it,
and then made up other lies to cover up those lies.
And we know where he got the weapon from!
And I personally do NOT believe he has given it back.
And also why does he threaten me if I want to call his brother to
confirm it?
(“If you dare call
my brother, you’ve had it !!!”) Also,
I asked them both directly if they were growing marijuana, and they denied it,
but later I was told by a witness that they were lying again, because they
didn’t want me to know, and there are 2 eyewitnesses who told me that they saw
many illegal marijuana plants close by where they live.
(Since there are no neighbors in that direction for about one mile, it is
unlikely that those plants were planted by anyone else except them.)
I want my children back!! Also
Jackie is guilty of welfare fraud, which I can prove, and also John and Jackie
both are guilty of check fraud, which I can also prove. But it’s the marijuana growing, with the illegal
guns, and the rippers, that is really dangerous, and I am most concerned for the
welfare of my children. John
has stolen Jackie away from me, he has ruined my 21-yr relationship with my
wife, he has broken up my family, and I’m just not going to take it anymore.
How all that came about is described below.
The purpose of describing how all this came about, with many references to the
sexual relationship with my wife, is to show John just for the kind of person he
is: almost everything he does is
either ILLEGAL (growing huge amounts of illegal crops of marijuana and
ayahuasca, check fraud, terroristic threatening, assault, illegal weapons, etc)
or IMMORAL (lying, stealing, cheating, committing adultery, coveting his
neighbor’s wife, etc., etc. and meanwhile claims to be some kind of holy man
thru his Ayahuasca Church, which claims to be “Christian,” but obviously
hasn’t taught him a thing about Jesus’ “Golden Rule” which Jesus
explained: “Do Unto others, as you would have others do unto you”)…
But almost everything he does is either illegal, immoral, and/or UNETHICAL
(like begging a wife to leave her husband of 21 yrs, after they've grown a
family with 5 children, who’s been letting him have an affair with her as much
as John could possibly want, while he himself cheated on his own wife (after he
separated her from her previous husband)… but all that wasn’t good enough
for him: he had to have my wife all for himself, and
didn’t care if he hurt me, or broke up my family with my 5 beautiful
daughters, or that I’m his land partner!!!
He’s unbelievably stupid and selfish!!)
My wife and my family were my PRIDE and JOY, my most precious TREASURE…
Now they’re gone, on account
of him…. He’s a “sexual predator” and was giving Jackie thousands of
dollars for having sex with him… With all his illegal money (growing marijuana
for 30 years makes you good at it, and I estimate he probably makes at least
$100,000 a year tax-free, that’s only about 25 pounds a year.
I’ve heard of some full-time marijuana-growers on this island, who
never harvest less than about 150 pounds a year (that would be about $600,000 a
year).
Altogether since April 2001, John has threatened to either kill me or harm me
on at least 4 different occasions, and he has assaulted me 3 times,
every time on my part of the property. (The
last time he assaulted me was a few days before Christmas, when he finally
admitted that he had a gun, but then he got angry at me (because I refused to
believe his stack of lies about how he gave it back to his brother, or whoever
he got it from, and that it was only to shoot at mongeese) and he swung at me
inside my own home. As I held
him back, he begged me to let him go, and in the process I accidentally
scratched his face, which then bled profusely. I have used all restraint against him, and now I am
going to use the law on my side, to be sure that everyone knows what a liar,
cheater, and scoundrel he is, growing illegal marijuana and ayahuasca plants all
over the property, with illegal weapons, etc. and I just want to get my children
back from their irresponsible mother.
Again, I have witnesses and proof that she and John were growing marijuana and
that they were growing marijuana a year ago, and got ripped off at gunpoint.
I can hardly believe they would try it again!!
It’s too dangerous with my children around, with guns, etc., and I
could lose my property… but John said he doesn’t care if we lose this
property -- because he has 3 other properties he can move to…
John will say that I threatened his life too.
That’s not true. I have
NEVER threatened to kill him. The
only thing like that which I’ve ever said to him, in front of multiple
witnesses, was “You’re lucky you’re alive!”
which I may have repeated on several occasions.
That only means that I’ve taken great restraint to not hurt him and
take revenge for what he did to me.
After I was sexually sharing my wife with him for almost 5 years (my
fault to allow it in the first place), after he begged me if he could have
sex with her), then he begged her to stop having sex with me, to
leave me, and to be his mate exclusively. During
that 5 years that I shared my wife with him, he NEVER ONCE introduced
me to another woman, in 5 years!!!!, while I had been monogamous
with her for 21 years.
This John Caverly is a greedy, selfish pig, and a liar, a cheater, a thief,
and and almost everything he does is illegal, immoral, or unethical… He’s a
marijuana-grower, and a hypocritical Christian, who makes himself out to be some
enlightened head of his Ayahuasca church, (highly illegal), yet he doesn’t
have any idea of the meaning of the 10 commandments (“don’t lie,
don’t steal, don’t commit adultery, don’t covet thy
neighbor’s wife, etc.”) and most of all he doesn’t obey Jesus himself,
who taught the “Golden Rule,” which Jesus said was all the Laws and
Commandments of the Bible rolled into one. The
Golden Rule, according to Jesus is this: “Do
unto others, as you would have others do unto you.”
You see, I could understand this if Jackie had met another man who was a
stranger to the family, who didn’t know me, etc. But this was different: John is my land partner, a friend of 30 years, and he got
together with Jackie sexually, only on account of me, and he could have had
sex with her any time he wanted… But no, that
wasn’t good enough for him… He had to betray me, and stab me
in the back, and say to her (behind my back) every derogatory thing he could
think of about me, and then beg her to stop having sex with me, and to leave me,
her husband of 21+ years, with a beautiful successful family with 5 children.
Talk about a man who respects FAMILY VALUES!!!
So you can see why I have no respect for him…
All he has going for him is a cute face and lots of illegally-gained
money.
Jackie always told me she didn’t even like him for sex… he was always too
rough for her… One time she got so sore from repeated sex with him, that
neither of us could have sex with her for over a month!! He also gave her
herpes within the first month we started the 3-way sex, although I’ve
never had herpes, and also he refuses to take an AIDS test!!
Meanwhile, since the kids moved in with him, my 10-yr-old daughter has
lost so much weight, she looks like a concentration-camp victim, and she is pale
and forlorn, and I’ve suggested that she should have an AIDS test (maybe John
is carrying HIV, although he himself is immune, while my 10-yr-old is frail and
more susceptible to HIV and AIDS… But
Jackie refuses to give her an AIDS test, or even to have herself tested,
although the most modern test, which is also free, is a simple 5-minute saliva
test, which they can get in the nearby town.
It’s as though Jackie knows that John has AIDS, and that possibly
Jasmine has it now too, another reason I want my children back.
As I said, John is my land
partner on our 27 acres in Kalapana.
He and his wife (or ex-wife Heidi Dillingham) own half, and I personally
own the other half in the name of my dba “Family Fruit Farm.”
Jackie doesn’t own any of it.
Even in a divorce, she can’t get it, because the money that paid for my
share came as gift or inheritance from my mother.
I would have put Jackie on title, but when I originally found the
property, Jackie begged me not to buy it (she wanted me to buy 1-acre in
Paradise Park instead). But soon
after I bought this property, and I sold half to John, I asked her then to stop
having sex so often with him, but she couldn’t seem to control herself.
John is very charismatic, and Jackie is one of the most gullible people I
have ever known, and I’ve known him for 30 years, and her for almost 24 years,
since Christmas Eve 1979 – we’ve been living together ever since the night
we met. So I know both of
them with some authority.
Another interesting thing
is that John has been married for the past 11 or 12 years to Heidi Dillingham.
When John met her, she was married to a man named Aelbert Ahegma, and
Aelbert and Heidi had 6 children between them, when John threw a wedge between
them, just like he did between Jackie and I who had 5 children between us… Both women at the time were in their late 40’s…
Why can’t he find a single unmarried woman??… Ask Aelbert
Ahegma what he thinks of John Caverly and his Ayahuasca Church.
Like I said, I’ve known
John for more than 30 years. He was
one of the first people I ever met when I moved to Hawaii after college in 1973.
About 5 years ago, before I purchased this property, he and I were
talking about our sex lives, and he confided that he had an infatuation with my
wife Jackie. I met Jackie on
Christmas Eve 1979, and we moved in together the same night and have been living
together ever since, later got married, and over 21 years, we produced and
raised 5 beautiful healthy daughters.
About 5 years ago, when he told me he had an infatuation with my wife, I
revealed that I had had a fantasy of having sex with 2 men and a woman, and he
told me the first of many, many lies to follow:
he told me that his wife (Heidi) gave him permission to have an affair,
as long as she never found out about it, he said.
That was a BIG lie…
Later on, 5 years later, when he himself, out of guilt, revealed to Heidi that
he had been having this affair with my wife, Heidi then told us that it wasn’t
true about her giving John her “permission” to have an affair “as long as
she didn’t find out.” (So that
was the first lie of many that John told to me and
Jackie). To make a
long story short, John and I approached my wife Jackie with the idea of 3-way
sex, and Jackie was concerned about immorality and adultery etc., but John
convinced both of us that he had his wife Heidi’s permission, but no one was
to ever tell her. The
agreement between the 3 of us was that we would meet once or twice a month for
3-way sex, and Jackie specifically stipulated 3 ground rules:
1) John wasn’t supposed to “fall in love” with Jackie, or 2) he
wasn’t supposed to “ruin his marriage to Heidi” on account of it, and
finally 3) “no one was to get hurt.” John
agreed to all 3 things (just to have sex with Jackie), and he lied about
“permission” he had from his own wife.
But over the next 4 years, he couldn’t stay away from Jackie.
He would set up secret liaisons with her, and she would go along with
him… He would call her on the
phone when he was away, two or three times every day.
I asked him to back off and slow down, but he didn’t.
His INFATUATION, and his ROMANTIC FIXATION toward Jackie
got so strong, that he started giving her money when she needed it, and even
when she didn’t need it, hundreds of dollars at a time, thousands of dollars
altogether, often for no reason at all.
I kept asking him to back off and slow down…
By 1999, he became my land partner in Kalapana, and started sleeping here
all the time, and I found him in bed with my wife time after time after time, to
the point where I hardly didn’t get any time with her anymore.
Meanwhile, over the 5 years that John’s secret affair with Jackie continued,
and I had been monogamous for 21 years, John never once brought another
woman for me, or even tried to introduce me to another woman, although I
continually suggested it, and asked it of him as a trade in kind.
Eventually, toward the end of 2000, I asked him to either stop, or at
least slow down, and I told him that if he didn’t stop, I personally would
tell his wife Heidi.
In December of 2000, John himself told Heidi about his almost 5-year affair with
my wife. One morning, about 6
am, when I went to my wife’s cabin, there was John in bed with her, with a big
grin on his face. He told me
that the previous night, he had told his wife about the affair, and added:
“So now you can’t stop us.”
I told him that that didn’t change my feelings about it, and I told him
that I was going to call his wife Heidi, now that he’d told her, and I wanted
to tell her what happened from my own point of view.
When I said I was going to call Heidi, John turned angry, and told me
that if I dared to speak to Heidi (who is also my land partner), that he was “going
to tear (me) from limb to limb.”
(Exact quote).
This was surprising that he forbade me to call his wife on the phone, but
over the previous 4+ years, he managed to call my wife on the phone several
times each and every day, and I never told him he couldn’t speak with her.
All I wanted to do that morning was crawl in bed with my wife and have
sex with her, but there he was again, a greedy selfish pig.
Prior to this, about a year earlier, he decided that he didn’t want to
have 3-way sex with her and me, only 2-way sex between him and her…
Again, I put up with it, although I continually suggested that he or
Jackie should help me find a new lover for me, but over 5 years that this
went on, neither John nor Jackie (both) ever even introduced me once to another
woman, and I remained monogamous for 21+ years.
When John told me he was going to “tear me from limb to limb” if I dared to
call his wife, I not only called Heidi, but I also called the police for
terroristic threatening. Afterwards,
John begged me not to press charges, so I didn’t.
He wanted Jackie to never tell me when they were together,
and he refused to ask my permission to sleep with her anymore…
He got arrogant toward me because I suggested to him that he should tell
me or ask me whenever he wanted to have sex with Jackie, just as a gesture of
respect for her husband, who was also the father of her children, and his
land partner, and who was the one originally responsible for making it happen
between him and her. But he
told me he didn’t need to ask my permission to have sex with my wife, because
he and Jackie had their own relationship now, and he didn’t need
to ask me or tell me. So I
went to Jackie and asked her to do what John refused to do.
She said she would. But
then, John found out about this, and he told Jackie to NEVER tell me
when she was going to have sex with him, even though she had
agreed to tell me... Even though I wasn’t going to stop them from having
sex with each other, I figured it was just a civilized gesture of respect. So you can see how John has turned wife against
husband, and husband against wife (“Divide and
Conquer”, and created IRREPARABLE HARM in my relationship with my wife,
and with my family… Remember,
too, how he divided his wife Heidi from her previous husband Aelbert, by
throwing a wedge between them. But
the final straw happened in April, 2001.
The previous week, I had asked Jackie for 2 things, which she agreed to give me:
I asked her to tell me whenever she was going to have sex with John
(because he had no respect for me, to tell me, as I asked, and she agreed to
tell me… I also asked her if we could have sex sometime in the afternoon, like
she did with John whenever he wanted it, and she also agreed to this…
After about a week of no sex with her, one afternoon, I felt so horny, I
begged her for 15 minutes in bed with her.
She refused. That
night, she was too tired she said. The
next morning, John called, and asked for Jackie, and when Jackie picked up the
phone, I was on the other line, and John asked if he could talk with her in
private, so I let him… About an
hour later, he drove up, and rather than stop and say hello, as he usually did,
he just drove up the hill to his place.
About a half hour later, I was working in the yard, and Jackie quietly
left the house, and walked right past me, but didn’t say a word to me, and
headed up the hill. A half hour later, when she didn’t return, I went up
the hill too, and lo and behold, there they were in bed together.
He told her on the phone that morning not to tell me, although she had
agreed and promised to tell me!! For
example, she could have told me what was planned, and that I should watch the
children, etc., but John knew how to turn wife against husband, and then
husband against wife, so he could divide and conquer.
Talk about respect for your land partner, and respect for FAMILY
VALUES!! This man has neither.
He’s a sicko!
Another time, earlier, after they had both agreed to not have sex together until
I also had another lover, they sent me off to deliver a $10 box of papayas.
Halfway down the long driveway, I turned around and came back, and lo and
behold, within minutes after I left, I returned and found them in bed together,
although they had lied to me by agreeing that they wouldn’t have sex with each
other for awhile. The more I think
of it, they deserve each other – liars and cheaters, although Jackie NEVER
used to lie or cheat or deceive until she got close to John.
It’s only under his evil influence that she has come to this.
There are many more examples I can think of, but I’ll leave this for
now…
Several more months went by, and one night in mid-April,
about midnight, I saw the candle on in Jackie’s cabin, so I walked down the
trail to her cabin, and just outside the door, I could hear John talking loudly.
I heard my name mentioned very loudly, several times, so I suddenly
stopped and listened. I listened to this conversation for almost 30 minutes.
John kept saying nasty things about me (behind my back, while in bed
with my wife), and he kept begging her to leave me, and stop having sex
with me, and be his mate only. As
I listened (eavesdropping secretly just outside the door of a little cabin), I
couldn’t believe the betrayal and back stabbing.
But Jackie kept saying to him “No, that isn’t right… No, that
won’t work… No, that isn’t fair… etc., etc”
For 5 years, Jackie always told me that she liked me better for sex (and
also I was the father of her 5 children), but she also frequently told me
that John was very jealous of me, and that I should never tell him how good our
sex life was, but whenever Jackie told me that, it was something which I
never took seriously enough...
On the phone, whenever he called, when his wife Heidi was away, or even when she
was outside for 10 minutes milking their cows, he would always call Jackie, and
ask if he could talk to Jackie “in private.” I always said “sure” and handed the phone to
Jackie. However, on numerous
occasions, I wanted to know what they were talking about, what was so
“private” that I couldn’t also listen, so I secretly listened in on these
“private” conversations about 20 times over 5 years, by quietly picking up
the phone and listening… Incredibly,
every single time that I listened, John had nothing but a whole list of
derogatory remarks about me, and always concluded to her sweetly something like
“I love you, I miss you, my love.”
Several times, I actually heard him getting angry at Jackie because
she had told me something that he didn’t want me to know.
One time, I remember, he yelled at her over the phone (while I was listening in
from another room): “What
the hell are you telling him the truth for!?
You don’t have to tell him the truth!!
Just lie to him!!” (Quote, unquote). Here he was, ordering
her to lie to her husband, while he was lying and cheating on his wife,
and lied to us originally that he had her permission to have an affair.
(Later of course we learned that that wasn’t true)…
But John is a master of deceit, and thinks nothing of telling lies. In fact, he’s the biggest liar I know, and must
continually lie to cover up other lies…
Back to that night when I overheard him begging her to leave me, to separate
from me, father of her 5 children, and she kept saying “No, that isn’t
right... No, that isn’t fair…No, that won’t
work,” I heard her having
to defend our marriage, and I thought nothing could ever ruin it, which seemed
like a marriage made in heaven, meeting like we did on Christmas Eve 1979,
and living together since the night we met (with no dating, no courtship) and
with 5 beautiful children (all girls), living in lovely parts of Hawaii..
We didn’t have a “perfect” marriage, but it was more successful and longer
lasting than any one else’s that I’ve known.
Once in awhile, we’d have a fight, and I’d raise my voice in anger.
Something like that happened a number of times over 21 years, but they
were just arguments, I never physically attacked her, or anything like that, and
I don’t know any couple that doesn’t argue once in awhile.
But I never hit her physically. The
worst physical confrontation came one day when she tried to throw boiling hot
water on me, and did, and I grabbed the pot of hot water out of her hands and
accidentally twisted her wrist in the process.
Even after that, we made up the next day.
But soon after any argument, we had great sex, and always made up the
next day.
I admit I sometimes have a little temper, perhaps from drinking coffee too
strong, but there was no real animosity toward her, I loved Jackie, cared for
her, I never cheated on her, I was monogamous, faithful, a family man, and
homebody. Now, with
John’s suggestions to her, she’s telling everybody another big lie, to
protect John: she tells people that she had been “trying” to leave me
for 20 years… Yeah right!!!
How can anyone believe that?????
Even when John suggested to her to leave me in April 2001, she kept
saying, “No, that isn’t right… that isn’t fair… etc.” What
are we supposed to believe? That
I had held her handcuffed? That
I forced her to have 5 daughters with me…?
Up until April 2001, she always told me she had great sex with me, best
orgasms of her life, etc., etc.
That’s whenever I could have sex with her, because in the last couple
years from mid-1999 until April 2001, if she had sex with either of us, it was
with John 4 or 5 nights a week, and me only once or twice.
That’s because John was such a SELFISH PIG with her.
Even when we had 3-way sex, I remember he’d usually take her, and hog
her for about 45 or 50 minutes out of every hour.
He was such a selfish pig about it.
Even in April 2001, when he begged her to stop having sex with me, he
was acting so selfishly, because he could have continued to have sex with her as
often as he wanted, and not incur my wrath.
He could have had sex with her any time he wanted, but no, that
wasn’t good enough for him -- he had to have her ALL for himself!!
So he begged her over and over to stop having sex with me, her husband of 21
years, and the father of her 5 children, and also his land partner, but
meanwhile he was having sex with her 5 or 6 days a week, but that wasn’t good
enough for him… He’s just a
greedy, selfish pig with no respect for God or righteousness…
One of the problems with her having sex with him so often was that she
wasn’t always in a mood for sex, so I suggested diplomatically that we go back
to 3-way sex only, so we each shared her equally, but he didn’t want anything
to do with 3-way sex.
In December 2000, after he told Heidi about his affair, Jackie was so upset at
him, and embarrassed, that she told him she wanted to break off their
relationship. After only 2 weeks, I
felt so bad for him, that I actually suggested to Jackie that she could get back
together with him, because he seemed so hurt. That night, I told him that he could sleep with Jackie again,
that I had talked her into it, and without even saying “thank you” to me, he
ran off to her cabin. (I hope
the reader starts to see who’s the nice guy here).
The point is: he
wants to get rid of me completely… He’s physically assaulted me 3 times,
and he’s threatened to kill me 4 times… he has illegal weapons on the
property, he has my wife lying for him, he himself lies about everything, he
grows marijuana on the property and around the property, has illegal guns, and
also illegal ayahuasca plants, and he’s got Jackie and the kids under his
persuasion, and they are all in grave danger. The Ayahuasca is another
illegal drug, class A felony, for which I can lose my property, yet he plants
these vines all over my property, (and probably all over his other three
properties), cultivating them en-mass, and telling me he doesn’t care if we
lose the property, because he owns 3 other properties where he and Jackie can
move to…
I spoke to DEA agent named Jay (in Hilo, Hawaii), and he told me that Ayahuasca
was class A felony, for which they can confiscate your property.
Meanwhile, John not only grows it en-mass, but he is also the HEAD of
this big Ayahuasca Cult here on this island, which meets regularly every new
moon and every full-moon, and during special holidays. He
has even brought my youngest daughter (who was age 6) to one of these Ayahuasca
sessions. Aelbert Ahegma also
complains that John has brought Aelbert's son to the same Ayahuasca sessions.
He’s stolen my solar panels, and I’ve asked for them back on numerous
occasions, and all I get is threats on my life. The solar panels are not his, nor Jackie’s, nor the
children’s. The solar
panels came off my old property, that I owned, and I paid someone to dismantle
them, to move them, and to set them up again.
Any money I may have owed to Jackie or my daughters was dismissed in
bankruptcy in 1998. So I’ve been
asking him for almost 6 months to return the panels, or else offer me some
monetary compensation for them (total value around $2,200 … I would take half
in cash, if settled immediately… Finally, I received $1,100, half their
original cost).
Also, since he won’t come clean about the gun, I want the police to
investigate this. The first
story was that he got it from his brother in Kona (but when he denied it, and I
suggested I call his brother to verify it one way or the other, he threatened me
“If you call my brother, you’ve had it.”
The second story about the gun was that they got it from a friend, but
returned it to him. Now I
hear a new story that he turned the gun in to the police!!!
(There should be some record of this to confirm it).
Personally, I don’t believe any of these stories, except the
first story, which I heard twice, two weeks apart, from Jackie… If it’s not
true, then please explain how she could have made up such a story, and with
certain details about who drove it around the island and when…
Of course, because they both lied about the gun so many times, it only
raises my suspicion further…
Also since he refuses to take an AIDS test, and Jackie won’t let my daughter
take the simple saliva AIDS test, and also because she’s growing marijuana
with him, and because my children live with him, a man who hates me, and has
threatened to kill me or harm me on multiple occasions, I want custody of my
children. (There are many other
reasons for the child custody). In
fact, in January 2002, I called Jackie on the phone 2 times about an AIDS test
for my daughter, who has lost so much weight since living around him,
it’s scary, but both times she just hung up the phone on me, with no
explanation!!!
In addition, my middle daughter (who just turned 14-years-old) was having sex
with her 19-year-old boyfriend (under John Caverly’s roof)… I had NEVER even
met the 19-year old boy, because John asked Jackie to NEVER invite me for
dinner, so I didn’t know what was going on in the lives of my children.
I believe she got pregnant, because soon thereafter she went to Honolulu
for several days, and John told all my other children to NOT tell me that my
14-yr-old had gone to Honolulu… Later, I heard rumors from 2 different sources
that my daughter had got pregnant, and had to have an abortion (at age 14!!)
When I confronted John about this -- about her getting an abortion – he
admitted it, but blamed it on me, because he said I wasn’t a good enough
father!!!!
I want the gun story investigated. The
last “story” John told me was that he himself turned the gun into the
police… Also, I may want to press charges for assault (3 times) and also for
terroristic threatening (4 times), and other illegal things, including child
endangerment… Living with John, Jackie has also been guilty of welfare and
food-stamp fraud, check fraud, and income-tax fraud.
I would love to see John’s income-tax returns.
They’ll say they make all this money growing papayas.
Let’s see if the receipts match their checking statements.
Or how they pay for all this. Of
course, the marijuana and ayahuasca money probably never goes into a bank
account, but is hidden somewhere secretly.
The main thing is, my children are endangered living around John, and if
she insists on living with him, then I want complete and total custody of my
children (only with visitation rights for Jackie).
See next 2 pages -- for Notarized Affidavit re: John’s threats to kill me, and
the notary signature page after that…
